新春愉快 !

祝所有朋友和家人在这新的一年，万事如意，心想事成 !

当然，最重要的就是身体建健康康啊！

Wishing all our dear friends and relatives a blessed year ahead and we know, we know, you are enjoying the 美真香肉干!

Its the 1st time kiddo get to wear such traditional dress (thanks to a friend here, who can't resist buying things for her while shopping at Richmond!)

The 1st time she put on the dress on friday night, she said:"Wow, mummy, so beautiful". I think she was struck by the glimmering pink. She never get to wear such stuff back home due to the weather, I tried putting on for her when she was 2 years old, before we could even stepped out of the house, she was scratching and screaming to tear it off already!

出外靠朋友。。。。How true this words means to us. We had 3 reunion dinners starting from 16-18 evenings with different S'porean families. These kind souls really made our CNY less lonely. On the last evening, where about 30 S'poreans and M'sians gathered at a friend's place, there were 2 mahjong tables, lots of hokkiens, "lahs-lahs, lehs-lehs" being spoken freely (some of the kids somehow even lost their Canadian accents that night), ate yummy pineapple tarts, "hei bee hiam" being flown in specially from S'pore....we felt like home again. We partied hard and only reached home at 1am, and the next day, hubby had to work...

Its funny, in S'pore, every CNY, we will try to escape and go away for a short holiday. Now, we yearn to be back to celebrate and enjoy this festive season. How contradicting human can be hor?

Be Strong, Eva...

Few weeks ago, during one evening while recuperating, I received a MSN msg from my long time friend, Eva informing me about this news....

" Ex-national waterpolo team captain dies after battling long neurological disease
By Ng Kheng WeiJan 10, 2007 AsiaOne

Former national waterpolo team captain, Mr Mark Koh Wei Meng, has died after battling a debilitating neurological disease for four years. He was 38.
He died at 1.30am on Tuesday in his Normanton Park home, with his wife Eva, 33, and his family by his side. He was suffering from Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS), also known as Lou Gehrig's disease, named after the American baseball player who died from it in 1941, at the age of 37.

The incurable disease usually results in patients losing control of their muscles gradually.
Mr Koh retired from waterpolo in 1999 after winning his seventh gold medal in the South-east Asia Games, and worked as a project manager in his uncle's construction firm.
He discovered that he had ALS only two years ago, when his muscles started to gradually weaken. He lost control of his hands in 2003.
The Singapore Swimming Association (SSA) collected $20,000 in 2005 from water-polo players and officials, as well as friends and well-wishers, to help pay for his medical expenses. The SSA later formed a special committee to raise funds for Mr Koh. The money was used to pay for his acupuncture sessions and Chinese herbs, which cost more than $300 a month.
His brother Ricky describes Mark as a "fighter" and battled the disease courageously, refusing to give up right till the end.

He told AsiaOne that his brother was very calm and was "more or less prepared for the worse" the day before he died.
A family man, Ricky said his brother made it a point to have dinner with his family members all the time.

Mr Tan Eng Bock, former national waterpolo player and 1976 Coach of the Year, and many other waterpolo players, went to pay their respects at Mr Koh's wake on Tuesday.
GOODBYE: Koh's former national teammates pay their respects at his wake at his Normanton Park home last night.

Mr Shen Zhi Zhan, 36, who trained together with Mr Koh from 1987 to 1989, said he was like a big brother to him, and was always cheerful and very caring towards his team members.
He said the former captain was one of the best players in Singapore's waterpolo history, displaying great leadership and skills.
"We are are very sad, because we feel as though something great is missing now," said Mr Shen.

The wake is being held at Blk 1, Normanton Park till Friday, when he will be cremated at Mandai Crematorium. "

Eva is one of the strongest women I ever known personally, I didn't console her, for I know no amount of words nor consolation will do. I can't say I understand her feelings then, for its too big a setback for anyone in life at this point of time. The thoughts of her returning to their condo which is familiar yet empty kept me sleepless for 2 nights. All I said was, if she ever need a breather/holiday, feel free to visit us in Vancouver and unwind.

Our friendship grew stronger when both our parents were diagnosed with cancer, we were both the main caregiver, it was straining, it was tiring. But Eva was always there to encourage me via MSN, we hardly meet up. Despite her hectic schedule, we managed to meet up for a short lunch just few days before I took off for Vancouver, I REALLY APPRECIATE it....

Later when her dad passed away and not long after her husband was diagnosed with this illness, I know the stress is once again upon her. Be strong Eva, you are really stronger than you could have imagined. Don't lose FAITH - For All I Trust Him.